{"id":2701,"date":"2020-01-06T20:54:00","date_gmt":"2020-01-07T02:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/2020\/01\/06\/a-decade-of-manageable-goals\/"},"modified":"2022-07-15T15:25:18","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T13:25:18","slug":"a-decade-of-manageable-goals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/2020\/01\/06\/a-decade-of-manageable-goals\/","title":{"rendered":"A DECADE OF MANAGEABLE GOALS"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t really do New Year&#8217;s resolutions as such, but every year when I write my Retrospective post, I write down what I think are manageable goals for the following year. I think exercise and healthier eating are on them every year, and I feel like I&#8217;m sort of just kidding myself with how seriously I tend to take that one, which is probably the most important one that&#8217;s always on my list. My weight has at least been hovering around the same place for nearly the whole last year and since I am still under the weight I was at my heaviest by a decent amount and have managed to keep myself diabetes-free for 3 years I&#8217;ll take it as, if not a win, a Pyrrhic victory of sorts, anyway. <\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s not to say there isn&#8217;t vast room for improvement in that area. There is. It&#8217;s on my mind all the time, actually. I am rather better about eating healthier most of the time, but have been much worse about exercise since I had my gall bladder out, for a couple of reasons that I&#8217;m not going to go into now. But I am trying to find ways to get better about both all the time. They are both such a struggle though, and they consume far too much of my mental guilt space. <\/p>\n<p>I finished my blog book for 2019 today and sent it to print. Only 6 days into the new year! I have the formatting down to a science and am the speediest cutter-and-paster on the planet. One of my (oft-repeated) goals for 2019 was to be more regular about posting here and I finally managed to do it. My 2018 blog book was only 114 pages, and 2017&#8217;s was only longer by a couple more. But for 2019, it is 156 pages; a substantial jump (despite the fact that I had only 1 post in November). <\/p>\n<p>I thought I&#8217;d look back and see what my track record has been for my manageable goals. I&#8217;ve been writing retrospective posts at the end of every year since 2007. My first list of manageable goals, which was for 2008, was<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Start art again!<\/li>\n<li>Travel to Prague<\/li>\n<li>Lose another 25 pounds<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I only managed to fulfill one of those completely but it wasn&#8217;t until many, many years later in 2015 that it actually happened (visiting Prague). The other two have proven elusive.<\/p>\n<p>These have been my goals every year since and my success rate, minus the ones that repeat every year about walking more, losing weight, eating healthier, etc.:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>FOR 2009<\/b>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Get the family to the States<\/b><br \/>Nope<\/li>\n<li><b> Renovate the kid&#8217;s department<\/b><br \/>It&#8217;s been done 3x since this item first appeared!<\/li>\n<li><b>Try to work Squam Art Workshops into the business trip to Boston<\/b><br \/>Finally managed it in 2011\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><b>FOR 2010<\/b>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Get the family to the States for summer vacation<\/b><br \/>YES<\/li>\n<li><b>Keep the better balance found between work, family &#038; activities<\/b><br \/>Ummm, I&#8217;ll give this a maybe\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><b>FOR 2011<\/b>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Trip to Germany in late summer<\/b><br \/>Nope, went to Iceland in the summer instead, but we did go down to Germany for a weekend at the beginning of December for my nephew&#8217;s Christening<\/li>\n<li><b>Garden renovation<\/b><br \/>Several times since this item first appeared!\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><b>FOR 2012<\/b>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Midsummer with my entire first family in northern Germany!<\/b><br \/>YES!<\/li>\n<li><b>Possible family vacation to Greece<\/b><br \/>Nope, sadly never happened<\/li>\n<li><b>Thorough clutter cleaning in the whole house<\/b><br \/>Ongoing since this item first appeared\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><b>FOR 2013<\/b>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Possible family houseboat vacation in England<\/b><br \/>Yes! Longboats for a week!<\/li>\n<li><b>Getting a new bed and a new washing machine<\/b><br \/>No on the bed, yes on the washing machine\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><b>FOR 2014<\/b>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Continue the no-soda plan until end of June reevaluation time<\/b><br \/>Yep, did it for a whole year<\/li>\n<li><b>Get through the project list<\/b><br \/>I assume so, haha<\/li>\n<li><b>BIG Birthday Trip to SOMEPLACE in August<\/b><br \/>Yes! We spent a fantastic week in Toronto!\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><b>FOR 2015<\/b>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Trip to somewhere WARM for Karin<\/b><br \/>Yes! Croatia for a week!<\/li>\n<li><b>Fireplace and great room renovation<\/b><br \/>Nope. Neither one has happened\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><b>FOR 2016<\/b>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Trip to the US for the big celebration year<\/b><br \/>Yes!<\/li>\n<li><b>Get Martin into driving school so he can get his license<\/b><br \/>Sadly, nope, he still hasn&#8217;t progressed on this one<\/li>\n<li><b>Kitchen renovation or fireplace addition<\/b><br \/>Nope. Neither one has happened<\/li>\n<li><b>Start singing and crafting again<\/b><br \/>Singing: yes, crafting: no\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><b>FOR 2017<\/b>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Encourage Martin in job hunting and college applications<\/b><br \/>Yes! Both worked!<\/li>\n<li><b>Get both kids into driving school<\/b><br \/>Nope<\/li>\n<li><b>Find and buy a new bed<\/b><br \/>Yep! Finally!<\/li>\n<li><b>Be more regular about posting here!<\/b><br \/>Nope, in fact, worse than before\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><b>FOR 2018<\/b>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Get Karin into driving school and push her about getting her driver&#8217;s license!<\/b><br \/>Yes to both! She got it!<\/li>\n<li><b>Replace the sofabed\/couch in the playroom<\/b><br \/>Nope, not yet&#8230;<\/li>\n<li><b>Do some major decluttering<\/b><br \/>Ongoing&#8230;<\/li>\n<li><b>Christmas in the US<\/b><br \/>Yes!<\/li>\n<li><b>Get Martin&#8217;s Klimt project prints framed<\/b><br \/>Nope, not yet&#8230;<\/li>\n<li><b>Be more regular about posting here!<\/b><br \/>Haha! NOPE, even worse than 2017!\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><b>FOR 2019<\/b>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Replace the sofabed\/couch in the playroom<\/b><br \/>Yes! Replaced with Anders&#8217; mom&#8217;s couch &#038; chair<\/li>\n<li><b>Do some major decluttering<\/b><br \/>YES! Still ongoing, though&#8230;<\/li>\n<li><b>Get Martin&#8217;s Klimt project prints framed<\/b><br \/>Yes! Finally!<\/li>\n<li><b>Be more regular about posting here!<\/b><br \/>Yes! Did much better this time!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I know this is of little interest to anyone but myself, but I find it kind of motivating and a good way to encourage some of the &#8220;bigger&#8221; things that I want to accomplish during the year, without managing to scare myself off with the term &#8220;resolution&#8221;. And I also think it&#8217;s just fine to put something on the list again for the next year if I didn&#8217;t manage to make it happen during the year that passed.<\/p>\n<p>Now to get serious again about those elusive weight loss, exercise and eating healthier goals!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t really do New Year&#8217;s resolutions as such, but every year when I write my Retrospective post, I write down what I think are manageable goals for the following year. I think exercise and healthier eating are on them every year, and I feel like I&#8217;m sort of just kidding myself with how seriously I tend to take that one, which is probably the most important one that&#8217;s always on my list. My weight has at least been hovering around the same place for nearly the whole last year and since I am still under the weight I was&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":7880,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[4,8],"class_list":["post-2701","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-general","tag-beinglizardek","tag-blogalicious"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2701","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2701"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2701\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3165,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2701\/revisions\/3165"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7880"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2701"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2701"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2701"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}