{"id":2349,"date":"2014-12-17T21:52:00","date_gmt":"2014-12-18T03:52:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/2014\/12\/17\/mirror-of-the-mind\/"},"modified":"2022-07-05T14:35:09","modified_gmt":"2022-07-05T12:35:09","slug":"mirror-of-the-mind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/2014\/12\/17\/mirror-of-the-mind\/","title":{"rendered":"MIRROR OF THE MIND"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I know, I know, using my blog to write to-do lists is the ULTIMATE in lame. And yet. Who else should I share the most important things in my life with? You think my husband and children give a rat&#8217;s ass about my to-do list?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s short. Or at least it is from this end, when I haven&#8217;t actually started it yet.<strike><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Write Christmas cards<\/li>\n<li>Buy stamps<\/li>\n<li>Mail Christmas cards<\/li>\n<li>Post online Christmas letter<\/li>\n<li>Bake Christmas cookies<\/li>\n<li>Check gift pile status&#8230;are the kids&#8217; presents balanced? If not, remedy<\/li>\n<li>Clean the freaking house<\/li>\n<li>Buy Christmas food, Swedish and American style<\/li>\n<li>Work on my sister&#8217;s Christmas present<\/li>\n<li>Get the kids to finish decorating the little tree<\/li>\n<li>Put the boxes back in the storage room<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><\/strike>That&#8217;s pretty short, right?<\/p>\n<p>We are watching <i>Lie To Me<\/i>. Have you seen it? Martin saw the pilot some time ago and asked for it for Christmas, and I gave him season 1 for his birthday. ALL of us are watching it&#8230; unheard of! (though I think Karin might actually have been watching <i>The Walking Dead<\/i> on her iPad tonight instead). We&#8217;ve watched 6 episodes and I still can&#8217;t decide if I like it or not. I&#8217;ve always thought Tim Roth was brilliant, but he&#8217;s so&#8230; I don&#8217;t know.<\/p>\n<p>Martin had the same reaction. I said I thought the show was well-done and interesting, but half the time it just goes so completely over the top, I can&#8217;t suspend my disbelief, and also I work for a company that makes surveillance cameras and ATTENTION TV PEOPLE, you cannot ENHANCE images to see what isn&#8217;t actually there.<\/p>\n<p>I think the premise of the show is fascinating: the science behind people&#8217;s expressions, gestures and body language used as a tool for evidence about whether they are lying or not, in all kinds of situations. But it keeps straying in the realm of what? stop, seriously? Get out of here.<\/p>\n<p>Martin thinks part of the problem is Tim Roth&#8217;s character. He&#8217;s another one of those loner, super-intellectual, more-intelligent-than-thou, kind of creepster arrogant, borderline asshole men. Martin ticked off several shows that we&#8217;ve watched (and liked) recently-ish that have the same kind of main character: <i>Sherlock, Elementary<\/i> (Sherlock again), <i>Mad Men<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>According to IMDB&#8217;s trivia, <i>Lie To Me<\/i> ran for 3 seasons and was canceled in 2011 but is apparently being filmed now again for release in 2015. I have never heard of a show having a 4 year hiatus! What&#8217;s up with that? Wikipedia says nothing about a new season so I find myself doubtful.<\/p>\n<p>ANYWAY, (and just imagine how many items I might have been able to check off my to-do list instead of this!) it&#8217;s interesting to realize how much you reveal about what you really think through your involuntary facial expressions, twitches, gestures, etc. Scary, really, because you might think you have a poker-player blank face but chances are that most people can pick up on what you&#8217;re not even realizing you&#8217;re putting down.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t think it takes a scientist to catch\/see most of these kinds of things. I think the basic requirement is that you&#8217;re human. We all make the same faces, the same expressions and react in universal emotional ways. I suspect it&#8217;s more that we don&#8217;t trust ourselves to believe what we see, especially when it doesn&#8217;t jive with what we want to think. And I think most of the time people are simply not paying attention. <\/p>\n<p>What do you think? And don&#8217;t lie to me. <\/p>\n<p>I saw that.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know, I know, using my blog to write to-do lists is the ULTIMATE in lame. And yet. Who else should I share the most important things in my life with? You think my husband and children give a rat&#8217;s ass about my to-do list? It&#8217;s short. Or at least it is from this end, when I haven&#8217;t actually started it yet. Write Christmas cards Buy stamps Mail Christmas cards Post online Christmas letter Bake Christmas cookies Check gift pile status&#8230;are the kids&#8217; presents balanced? If not, remedy Clean the freaking house Buy Christmas food, Swedish and American style Work&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[27,10,5],"class_list":["post-2349","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general","tag-holidaze","tag-martinbean","tag-puttingwordstogether"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2349","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2349"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2349\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3839,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2349\/revisions\/3839"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2349"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2349"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2349"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}