{"id":2162,"date":"2013-01-12T15:03:00","date_gmt":"2013-01-12T21:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/2013\/01\/12\/had-to-be-done\/"},"modified":"2022-07-05T14:35:24","modified_gmt":"2022-07-05T12:35:24","slug":"had-to-be-done","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/2013\/01\/12\/had-to-be-done\/","title":{"rendered":"HAD TO BE DONE"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The other day I beat my husband home from work by only a few minutes. I had just sat down on the couch when he came in. It&#8217;s cold again here in Sweden after several weeks of rather warm for winter temps and rain. We had a dusting of snow last night and I&#8217;ve plugged the car heater in each evening for making sure I could start it in the mornings.<\/p>\n<p>When he walked into the living room I tipped my head back and said, &#8220;Hey there.&#8221; He responded by putting his hand on my forehead. It was ice cold. &#8220;Aaaah,&#8221; I said. He put the other one on my head, too. &#8220;That feels great,&#8221; I remarked, &#8220;But why are your hands so freezing cold??&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Because my heart is so warm,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p>At dinner the next night, which happened to be at my sister-in-law&#8217;s home, to celebrate the 16th birthday of her son, I repeated this story for my mother-in-law and then had to repeat it for everyone else while Anders put his head in his hands, all embarrassed. I leaned over and told him, &#8220;I am so blogging this, you know.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>After I related the story again for my father-in-law, who is hard of hearing and had missed most of it the first time around, he said, with a perfectly straight face, &#8220;But the heart maintains a steady temperature of 37 degrees celsius&#8221; and couldn&#8217;t understand why we all burst into laughter again.<\/p>\n<p>I leaned over again to Anders: &#8220;TOTALLY blogging that, too.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>16 years in Sweden. Plus the 6 in Belgium and Germany as a teenager, that makes 22 years abroad. In only 2 years, I&#8217;ll have lived half my life overseas. I find it more remarkable every year, but really, what&#8217;s remarkable about it? It&#8217;s just my life and my home and how it is.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>I have 3 big projects to work on right now, plus feeling like I should really do some work for WORK, at which there is too much to do to keep up with during work hours. I still have to finish the Lego Project (<i>bwahahaha!<\/i> Who am I kidding with that optimistic &#8220;finish&#8221;?), and I pulled out the big folder of photos I have crammed into the bookshelf to start sorting through. And I just PDF&#8217;d my 2012 journal entries so I can start formatting my next book. What? There&#8217;s always SOMETHING to do!<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re going to see <i>Fanny &#038; Alexander<\/i> tonight at Malm\u00f6 Stadsteater. It&#8217;s one of my favorite movies, and I love the story, so I&#8217;m looking forward to it, though the kids are much less enthusiastic about the prospect. I had asked for tickets for Christmas but didn&#8217;t realize that Anders would buy 4 for the whole family. Oh well, chalk it up to cultural experience and hope they get something out of it for character growth, right?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The other day I beat my husband home from work by only a few minutes. 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