{"id":1506,"date":"2008-01-21T20:26:00","date_gmt":"2008-01-22T02:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/2008\/01\/21\/in-solitude-where-i-am-least-alone\/"},"modified":"2022-07-05T14:46:37","modified_gmt":"2022-07-05T12:46:37","slug":"in-solitude-where-i-am-least-alone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/2008\/01\/21\/in-solitude-where-i-am-least-alone\/","title":{"rendered":"IN SOLITUDE, WHERE I AM LEAST ALONE"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The moon is shining down in a misty sort of way, it&#8217;s full of itself and drunk on moonshine. The house is quiet and (relatively) clean. This is the one week out of the year when the things I pick up and put away stay in their places for 7 whole days. This is the one week when no one else dictates my activities or time spent on any given thing: I have free rein! I don&#8217;t have to think about anyone but me! (at least at home&#8230;work is another story entirely)<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t have to fix meals for anyone but me.<\/p>\n<p>I can hog the bed (though I do miss my Swedish bed-warmer \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>No one else sits down at the computer when I get up for a moment to deal with something else that&#8217;s called my attention.<\/p>\n<p>NOTHING ELSE CALLS MY ATTENTION!<\/p>\n<p>Anders and the kids left Sunday morning, bright and early and I went back to bed and slept in. Then I spent the whole day gloriously, giddily, joyously BY MYSELF. I picked things up, I worked on projects, I played solitaire and read my book. I even watched a movie that did not have Captain Jack Sparrow in it! I know! It was GREAT!<\/p>\n<p>I did not tell anyone to quit fighting or take their toys out of the living room. I did not endure groans about the choices of food I was fixing for lunch or for dinner. No one has rolled their eyes at me for 2 days! And this morning I didn&#8217;t have to nag and chivvy anyone else out the door or make sure they had their homework or piano book or gym shoes or fruit snacks.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, no one is giving me hug bombs, or good night kisses or shoulder rubs when I really need them. No one is wondering when I&#8217;ll be home. No one is telling me they love me before I turn out the light late at night. But I think I can manage to get through the week, regardless.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The moon is shining down in a misty sort of way, it&#8217;s full of itself and drunk on moonshine. The house is quiet and (relatively) clean. This is the one week out of the year when the things I pick up and put away stay in their places for 7 whole days. This is the one week when no one else dictates my activities or time spent on any given thing: I have free rein! I don&#8217;t have to think about anyone but me! (at least at home&#8230;work is another story entirely) I don&#8217;t have to fix meals for anyone&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[14],"class_list":["post-1506","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general","tag-goodthings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1506","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1506"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1506\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4886,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1506\/revisions\/4886"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1506"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1506"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lizardek.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1506"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}